Table Topic Tuesday. 7/9.

Another Tuesday, another dollar. It’s Table Topic Tuesday time!

Table Topic Tuesday is supposed to be easy fun. A game, you know? And I’ve been a purist, picking the next question right off the top. I really wanted to slide this guy back into the middle. It’s just a little heavy for my Tuesday morning taste. But it’s been pulled and posed, so now it’s time to answer. P.S. If I pull another groaner next week, it’s mulligan time.

Table Topic Tuesday. 7/9.

My answer depends on what I’m doing. When I goof—and I goof daily—I replay that oops again and again. Memories of the worst bits of my past are the most physical. Whether it was 6 years or 6 minutes ago, I can still feel the hot flush and nervous tingle of a mistake.

I go to the future a lot, too. When there’s a screen full of red alerts in Blue (our job management system at work). When I’m wondering what the heck we’re having for dinner. When I’m worrying over what I’ll do one day when Tucker pretends he doesn’t see my outstretched hand reaching to guide him across the parking lot.

I’m sure I’ve wasted half of my “present” toggling between the past and the future.

But when you catch the present? When it’s not a wisp breezing by, but it’s a moment that you squeeze and smell and taste? When Case barrels towards you, arms open, full speed, insisting on a family “Group hug!” When Tucker lisps a story through his toothless smile. When you’re so present and full that you stop to whisper “thanks.”

When you’re protecting.

Sunscreen

Roaring.

Disney Digression.
Disney Digression.

Singing.

Birthday Song

Reading.

Story Time

When you’re catching someone else in the present.

Daddy

Grace

I want to live there all the time.

Lynda was brave enough to play this week! She says:

This question is an easy one for me. I live in the future. The funny thing is that I’ve recently come to that realization and had a conscious thought about it. I’m at an age where many of my friends are either recently married or have been married and are now having kids or having their second kids. I look at them and I can’t help but look towards my future. What will it hold? What will my husband be like? How many kids will I have? All of these are things I want, and I don’t know that I’ve ever allowed myself to admit that they are things I want. I’ve always been content with living my life, making something of myself, developing a career. But lately I’ve found myself thinking, “…when I have a husband, we can do this or that. Or wouldn’t that be a fun trip to take with my significant other…” A lot of times it revolves around travel. Sometimes just with ideas of how to spend my evenings or weekends. And I know sometimes I let it hold me back from enjoying things in the here and now because I file it away or put it off. Of course, I don’t sit at home every evening pining over this future life, but I do think of it and dream of the day when I have someone to share it with. Perhaps you could say that these days it’s an awareness that I’m ready. I want it. And I want it now. But alas, patience has never been one of my virtues.

Lindsay, too! Her answer made me rethink mine.

I think living anywhere other than the present gets a bad rap. I don’t like that. I like to focus on the present and be ‘in the moment,’ but the past and the future are important, too. The past is for re-living good memories, learning from silly mistakes and realizing how far we’ve come. If we can’t live in the past a little bit, how can we be expected to know where we want to go in the future or how we’re going to get there? 

Who else is taking me up on this week’s question? Go!

Table Topic Tuesday. 7/2.

Happy Tuesday to you. It’s Table Topic Tuesday Time!

Drumroll…..

Table Topics 2

This question seems so simple, right? But it just leads to more questions. What kind of boat? I own it, but do I share it? Naming a boat is almost as serious as naming a child. It has to fit.

This boat has a magical name, eh? A girl can dream. (Disney Digression #1)

Fantasy

And if I owned this boat, I’d call it “Happy Place”.

Tucker, Uncle Tim. Pop, Jeff. Disney Digression #2.
Tucker, Uncle Tim. Pop, Jeff. Excited Strangers. Disney Digression #2.

I snapped this shot from the now-closed Pier in St. Pete. You get in a boat like this to recharge or kumbaya with nature. So something like “The Battery” or “Truce” feels right.

St. Pete

But, if we ever get a boat, it will be one like this—an unassuming kayak that we can paddle through the shallow channels of old Florida.

Crystal River

Tuck piloted this buddy at our friend’s “River House.” The River House is made for reconnecting, slowing down and catching up.

There’s something arresting about being in a kayak. Floating close enough to touch the current is a quiet thrill. When you’re immersed in creation like that, time pauses. Life feels easy. It’s like an unhurried conversation with a dear old friend.

If when we get a boat like this, I’ll name it “Chum”.

To be fair to my fam, with whom I would be sharing said boat, I asked Tucker, Case and Jeff what they’d name our craft. They answered “The Pearl of Revenge,” “The Lion King Boat,” and “The Mindalynn” respectively.

And, of course, my expert panel weighed in, too.

Lindsay says:

If I ever owned a boat {let’s hope for the sake of the high seas that I never own a boat}, I would name it either FAST FEET or A RUNNAROUNDD LIFE. I can’t decide. I think “A Runnaroundd Life” is fun because it’s my blog’s name, and “Fast Feet” embodies the runner and biker in me. 

Lynda says:

I love boats. And when I say I love boats, I mean that I love going out on other people’s boats. Because really, who has time to keep up with the maintenance and troubles and overall responsibility of a boat? I can barely do that with my car. 

I don’t love high-speed water activities. And that includes jet skiing, water skiing, tubing, wake boarding, and all the other crazy antics people get up to on the water. Don’t they know hitting the water at 30mph is like hitting concrete? I just imagine broken arms, legs, and busted chins. No thanks. 

Obviously, I am not what one would consider “adventurous,” so if I had a boat – and that’s a very big if because I’d prefer to just keep mooching off of existing boat owners – I’d name it “The Big Chill.” That pretty much sums up my ideal afternoon on a boat – drifting up a river or circling a lake enjoying the sun, the breeze, and most importantly an icy-cold beverage. None of that would be possible in a boat named “Cheetah” or “Viper” or “Turbo” because your hair would be a mess, you couldn’t keep your drink from spilling, and you’d be gritting your teeth and hoping you don’t get thrown out. At least that’s how my logic works.

So if you see me puttering along in an old pontoon boat named “The Big Chill,” drop an anchor, cast a line, and float awhile. There’s guaranteed to be good tunes, plenty of laughs, and coolers full of icy-cold beverages – koozies provided.

Okay. You’re up! What would you name your boat?

Table Topic Tuesday. 6/25.

I. Love. Games.

So, the blog was the perfect excuse opportunity to buy a new one.

It came yesterday.

TableTopics

I also love playing games with friends, so I’m inviting a few of my favorite folks to play along every Tuesday.

Hope you’ll play, too!

Without further ado, here is the inaugural question. And it’s a doozy.

Question 1

I still count my wedding day as the best day of my life. I relive it often through pictures and stories. It’s such a flawless memory, I wouldn’t go back—even if I could.

The moment I met Tucker? That’s isolated perfection, too.

And then there’s the moment Case arrived. Pure sunshine from the start.

Jeff and I joke about the evening he proposed. Neither one of us remember what he said. But we both remember me saying yes and that’s worked out just fine.

If I have to pick one moment to relive—just one?—out of the millions of joy-filled memories I have, I choose the moment I met Jeff. Because I had no idea, in that moment, that he would be mine. What did we say? What did we talk about? I know we I chattered easily for the better part of an hour.

I’d love to relive that first eye lock again.

Lindsay (my socially savvy copywriter friend) says:

After thinking about it for longer than I probably should have, I realized there’s a big difference between the words “relive” and “redo.” I want to relive a million and one moments spanning from childhood to last week, and I think I’d like to redo even more. But if those moments were re-done, I might not be the silly runnaroundd blogger with a deep passion for Mizuno running shoes and the Magic Kingdom that I am today. So if all those moments are to stay as they were, I would relive my “glory” days. My college running days when I was the happiest and the strongest I’ve ever been. Every practice, every workout and every meet was a challenge. I would run to my coach after we were through, exhausted and depleted, but alive and proud of what I could do.

tampa cross country home meet

My dear Lynda (friend of almost a decade and birthday girl!) says:

Growing up in the US, you celebrate the 4th of July every summer. There are pool parties, barbecues, parades, fireworks, little American flags, and lots of red, white, and blue. There’s a hometown feel to it, celebrating with neighbors down the street or families in backyards. You can just feel the Americana oozing out of every apple pie and hot dog. Well one summer in college, I decided to study abroad. Paris was my destination and French was my subject of choice. I was immersed in a different culture, a whole different feel to every day life, and I loved every minute. I had never really stopped to consider what life was like outside of my bubble before. I hadn’t stopped to think of the holidays in other countries and the things that gave them their identity, but I soon had my eyes opened. The 4th of July came and went in France without much of a second thought. I mean, I didn’t know anyone who owned a backyard, and I don’t think the French ate hot dogs or really cared about celebrating our version of the red, white, and blue. And that was okay. They had their own celebration, and I was priviledged enough to witness it – Bastille Day. July 14th for them…their day of “independence” from the monarchy, the birth of their modern nation. The day started with a military parade down some of Paris’ famous streets, including tanks, marching armies, airplanes and jets doing fly overs. Afterward, our group made our way to the Eiffel Tower. We picnicked all day after picking out our “spot” for the show. We were excited. We were overwhelmed. We had no idea what to expect. As the sun set over the Eiffel Tower and the darkness fell, all of the lights in the Champ de Mars where we were sitting went out. A loud cheer erupted and the crowds stood. Chants of “asseyez,” “asseyez,” “asseyez” filled the air and the crowd slowly sat back down – apparently no one wanted an obstructed view. We joined in, we cheered, we yelled at the top of our lungs. And then it started. The Eiffel Tower sparkled. The lights slowly came back on. The music blared. The fireworks erupted. I have never witnessed such an awe-inspiring event in my life. My eyes had never seen that type of celebration, that big of a show. Nothing compared to that moment – seeing this symbol of France alight with fireworks, pyrotechnics, laser lights, and the crowd going wild. It was an experience that was forever imprinted upon my memory, and the feelings I had I won’t soon forget. It is a moment in time I would choose to relive in a heartbeat.

Javi (the caramel-colored copywriter (his words), super funny guy) says:

I own pajamas. I just want to make that point very clearly, because the mark of a man who owns pajamas is that of a man who has lived a life worth living. A life of purpose. Do you think Nelson Mandella, Dr. Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln, Mark Twain, Winston Churchhill, or other great men throughout history have slept in anything BUT pajamas. I submit that they have not. Try to picture them coming to bed venturing to the land of nod, in anything other than pajamas. You can’t do it. Try, and the brain ceases to function. It’s unfathomable. Pajamas equal purpose. They are one and the same. And, as a man who owns pajamas, when asked to reflect on the history of my years, I take it quite seriously. And, on examination of my life, I would honestly have to state, with unwavering confidence rooted in the deeply established truth of my existence, that I have no idea what I’m doing on a regular basis, nor do I understand my purpose at all. This whole life thing is crazytown, you dig? Straight bananas. Randomly wondrous. And, who knows… You may argue that owing pajamas seems insignificant.
That there can’t be a true correlation between one silly thing and something so great.
But, nonetheless… Pajamas.
When I was 21 I went to Barcelona Spain, to meet my great grandparents. I met them in the house my grandmother grew up in. They were in their 90’s. Lively. Funny. Absolutely wonderful. That’s what a life untainted by Facebook will get you. Most people would say it was the Mediterranean diet that kept them so youthful and vibrant. Most people would be wrong. It’s because no Facebook.
After a memorable and lovely lunch and visit I walked four houses down the street, to the door of my great uncles house, where my grandfather grew up. And, there I froze. Before I entered I looked down the cobblestone street, to the door of my great grandparents house and life washed over me.  That street, those stones, those trees, held the key moment to my entire life. I stood on the street where my grandparents had met. Where they exchanged glances, jokes, and fell in love. That tiny portion of that tiny street had been an integral point of my very existence. I wondered if it was the sunlight that caught my grandmother’s hair the right way one random day that made my grandfather notice her? Or, if it was my grandfather’s big laugh that echoed down the narrow walkways that made my grandmother turn her head. Every stolen moment, that led to a decades of marriage together began right there. Right at the stones under my feet. Without those cobblestones, laid out that very way, on that very street. I wouldn’t be here. That realization. That’s the moment I’d live again.
Sooooo sappy right? I’m sensitive like that… Ladies.
In the end this whole life thing is crazytown, you dig? Straight bananas.
Randomly wondrous. And, who knows… You may argue that these moments seem insignificant. That there can’t be a true correlation between one silly thing and something so great. But, nonetheless… Pajamas.

Okay. You’ve heard from the gang. Your turn. What one moment would you relive?